Coaching for 21st Century Singles

Changing the way we approach dating, love and intimacy

Are you fed up with Dating Apps?

Does it feel like you´re doing something wrong?

Does it feel like time is running out?

OK. I can help you – read on...

Dating can feel challenging at times, it can feel like a chore. Despite there being more advice and more experts than ever before, much of it is conflicting and some of it is simply out of date. You could end up confused and disappointed. You could think it was your fault and you might give up completely.


I know exactly how that feels because I spent nearly 10 years getting it wrong until I figured out what to do differently. I have also seen hundreds of people struggle with dating over the 12 years I worked in Professional Matchmaking.


I am now dedicating myself to working with people who are tired of feeling disconnected, stuck and jaded and instead, want to start dating from a place of connection, love and fulfillment.

If you are ready for a real transformation I can help.



What can you expect from working with me?



Insight from experience

With my 15 years experience in Matchmaking and Coaching combined with my own life experiences in love, relationships and dating, I have decades worth of experience and expertise in

understanding people’s true desires, what we are driven by and

how we can transform negative

dating patterns into positive and conscious relationships.




Challenging your own personal status quo will be part of the journey whilst working with me.

The key here is to learn to

be open to your own unique desires and let go of other people’s expectations of you.



All my clients get a very personal, one to one service, handled with confidentiality, discretion and compassion.



Honest & Holistic

Expect a transparent, honest and open approach where I will help you identify the best solutions uniquely for you.


Sex & Intimacy


Sex and intimacy are wonderful areas in our lives but sadly often clouded with notions of shame, judgement, expectations and control. It’s my aim to open up conversations around these topics ensuring you can experience fulfilled, open, real and true to your desires kind of intimacy & sex with your lover / partner.

Working with me will help you if you can relate to one or more of the below issues:

You feel stuck and alone

You are going through a big transformation such as end of a relationship / marriage 


You are aware that something needs to change but you don´t know where to start

You are anxious about what others think of you for not having a partner

You seem to always attract the 'wrong types'

You feel like you desperately want to meet 'the one'

You feel like you are running out of time

You want to learn what kind of relationship is right for you

You want to understand more about sexual connection

You want to learn how to openly express your desires


We will work together in a manner that leaves you feeling inspired, confident and grounded.

You will start attracting people in your life who you truly connect with.

You will be able to choose relationships that are happy, positive and  balanced.

Click here to find out about my Coaching Programmes

Do you have a question? Let's see where the dialogue takes us.


Reach out to me to set up a time to speak and find out how I can help you:

07970 980442

* My service is open for all sexualities *

​© 2020 Miia Koponen

Esther Perel

A Belgian psychotherapist specialising in couples therapy and all things related to relationships, love, desire and sex. I love the work and ideas of this woman.

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