Intimacy Rewired

Therapeutic relationship coaching for emotionally and sexually connected relationships.

Most clients begin with a Discovery Call, where we explore your situation and what kind of support would best serve you.

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When relationships repeat the same patterns

Many people understand their patterns intellectually — yet still find themselves repeating them in relationships.

This work goes deeper, helping you transform the emotional, relational and nervous system patterns that shape intimacy, connection and desire.

What is Intimacy Rewired?

Intimacy Rewired is my structured coaching and therapeutic approach for individuals and couples who want to transform recurring relationship patterns and create deeper connection.

Rooted in attachment theory, nervous system awareness, relationship psychology, sexology and mindful relational practices, this work supports change that is not only understood — but felt.

Through this work, clients often experience:

• more emotional clarity
• a calmer nervous system
• improved communication and confidence
• healthier relationship choices
• deeper emotional and sexual connection
• more freedom from old patterns

This may be for you if you:

• repeat the same relationship patterns
• feel anxious, avoidant or overwhelmed in intimacy
• struggle with trust, vulnerability or communication
• want deeper emotional and sexual connection
• are ready for a calmer, more conscious way of relating

Many people come to this work after trying to solve relationship challenges through communication advice, dating strategies or self-development alone.

Often the deeper patterns live in the nervous system and relational history.

Intimacy Rewired is designed to work at that deeper level.

Ways to work together

  • For self-aware individuals who want to break repetitive dating patterns and attract secure, emotionally available love.

    This structured 3–4 month journey helps you understand your attachment patterns, recalibrate attraction, reconnect to your sexual self-trust, and develop a grounded approach to dating.

    Includes:
    • 6 × 70-minute private sessions
    • Practical dating and reflection exercises
    • Nervous system and secure sexuality practices

    → Get in touch to learn more about the Singles Programme on the form below

  • For couples who want to move beyond recurring conflict and rebuild emotional and erotic connection.

    Over 3–4 months, we explore communication patterns, nervous system dynamics, and the foundations of secure intimacy so your relationship can feel both safe and alive.

    Includes:
    • 6 x 90-minute couples sessions
    • Communication and co-regulation tools
    • Intimacy and connection practices

    • I support couples in navigating communication, emotional connection, intimacy and desire differences — and where relevant, exploring non-traditional relationship structures such as non-monogamy in a conscious and emotionally safe way.

    → Get in touch to learn more about the Couples Programme on the form below

  • For Couples Exploring Non-Monogamy

    For couples considering or navigating open or non-monogamous relationships
    and wanting to do so with emotional safety, clarity, and mutual respect.

    This work includes:

    • Navigating boundaries and agreements

    • Understanding emotional triggers and attachment dynamics

    • Supporting honest communication around desire and needs

    • Creating a foundation of safety before expanding the relationship

    → Get in touch to learn more about the Couples Programme on the form below

  • “I feel grounded, confident and clear about what I want in love.”

    Shama

  • “My mindset around dating shifted — and so did the people I now attract.”

    Sophie

  • “Taking intentional time together brought both connection and intimacy back into our relationship.”

    Couple

  • “I now trust my feelings and choose relationships more consciously.”

    Sacha

  • “I felt genuinely seen, heard and supported throughout the process.”

    Eve

  • “We were able to say what had never been spoken — and everything shifted.”

    Couple

  • “I discovered a deeper sense of self-worth in my sexuality and womanhood.”

    Kirsi

  • “Working with Miia helped me find myself — not just a partner.”

    Oliver

  • “Dating now feels exciting and grounded, rather than something I fear.”

    Liz

  • “Working with Miia helped me reconnect with my inner strength after divorce.”

    Vanessa

Let’s Work Together

If you feel aligned with this work, please fill out the form and let’s book our fist conversation in the calendar.

I will respond personally within a few days.