Private Matchmaking

A personal approach to meeting someone.

You can meet plenty of people and still struggle to meet someone you want to build a relationship with.

Sometimes your everyday life offers few opportunities. Sometimes dating has become a little repetitive. And sometimes you would simply appreciate someone thoughtful and experienced helping you navigate it.

My private matchmaking work offers a bespoke approach, shaped around your circumstances, the relationship you’re looking for, and where a meaningful connection might realistically be found.

Experience, with a wider perspective

I spent around 15 years working in London’s dating and matchmaking world, including 11 years with Drawing Down the Moon, where I worked as a Senior Matchmaker and Dating Coach.

Today, I bring that experience together with my work in sexology and therapeutic relationship coaching. I’m interested in what happens beyond an appealing profile: how two people relate, what draws them together, and whether there is room for a relationship to grow.

Preferences matter. So does being curious about who might suit you beyond the picture and checklist you already have in mind.

What working together could involve

Each assignment begins with getting to know you: your life, relationship experiences, values, attraction, and hopes for a partnership.

Depending on your needs, our work may include a tailored search for potential partners, personal outreach through agreed channels, conversations with potential matches, and carefully considered introductions where there is mutual interest.

It may also include practical dating support, refining how you present yourself, or reflecting together after dates. Sometimes a fresh perspective on how you approach dating is as valuable as the introduction itself.

The geographical focus, search methods, level of support, and timeframe are discussed individually. Any proposed assignment comes with a clear scope and fee before you decide whether to proceed.

A thoughtful process, on both sides

An introduction is an opportunity to explore a connection. Attraction and a lasting relationship can never be guaranteed.

I approach this work with discretion, honesty, and respect for everyone involved. Personal information is shared only with permission, and introductions depend on mutual willingness to meet.

I take on assignments selectively, where I believe my experience and approach can offer meaningful value.

Let’s begin with your situation

If you’re interested in private matchmaking, please get in touch with a little about yourself, where you’re based, and what you’re looking for.

From there, we can explore whether working together could be a good fit.