I’ve always been curious about what happens between people.

Particularly on the deeper, intimate level.

I have always been interested in themes like:

How do we create the bonds and relationships that we do?

How can we understand more of our own desire?
Why are we attracted to certain kinds of people?
Who are we really underneath the ‘should’ and ‘have to’s’ in life?

For 15 years I worked in London in the dating and relationship industry, supporting singles through matchmaking and date coaching. I worked with ambitious, intelligent, often highly successful people who, despite everything they had achieved, still struggled with love and intimacy.

What I kept on seeing in my work:

Finding a partner isn’t just about strategy (although this helps).
It’s about the nervous system, self-worth, and our authentic desires — and how safe it feels to be seen.

I was also invited to contribute to public conversations around relationships, attraction and sexuality, speaking at events and panels — including the OM (Orgasmic Meditation) Society in London.

My Work Today

Today, I combine real-world dating experience with sexology training, therapeutic studies, mindfulness practices, and deep relational work.

I work with:

• Singles who want to date consciously — not anxiously
• Individuals healing attachment wounds while still feeling attractive
• Couples wanting to reconnect emotionally and sexually
• Women rediscovering desire, embodiment, and erotic confidence

My approach is both practical and profound.

Yes, we can talk about dating apps, communication, and relationship skills.
But we also explore:

• How early patterns show up in intimacy
• How your nervous system responds to closeness or conflict
• How desire shifts under stress
• How connection can be rebuilt from safety rather than performance
• What a nourishing relationship looks like to you

What It Feels Like to Work With Me

Clients often describe our work as:

Grounded
Curious
Honest
Warm

Sometimes playful.
Sometimes confronting — in the best possible way.

I bring lightness into difficult topics.
I ask questions that open new perspectives.
I create space for you to pause, feel, and respond — rather than react.

This isn’t about fixing you.

It’s about helping you return to yourself — so your relationships can be built from clarity, choice, and emotional safety.

Professional Background & Training

I bring over 15 years of experience working in the field of dating, relationships, and human connection.

I began my career in London within the matchmaking and dating industry, supporting individuals in navigating modern dating and partner selection in a highly practical, real-world context.

Alongside this work, I trained in:

• Sexology / Sexuality counselling (Sexpo, Finland)

• Coaching and personal development methodologies (London, including The Coaching Academy and training with Jo Hemmings)

• Mindfulness-based approaches to emotional awareness and behaviour change (including Transformation Academy, Nirodha Ry, and AudioDharma)

My work is further informed by ongoing training in relationship psychology, attachment, and sexuality, including studies with organisations such as Tavistock Centre, NICABM, and Juliet Grayson.

I am a member of The Sexology Society of Finland (fias.fi) and serve as a board member of Valve ry - Finnish National Network of sexual education (valvery.fi ).

My work is grounded in sexology-informed counselling and relationship coaching, and informed by established psychological and sexological frameworks.

I continue to deepen my work through ongoing training and professional development, supporting my clients with both up-to-date knowledge and an evolving understanding of intimacy, relationships, and human behaviour.

My academic background began with a BA (Hons) in Mass Communication & Cultural Studies from London Metropolitan University.

While my early studies focused on communication, culture, and human behaviour, my career path eventually led me more deeply into the world of relationships, emotional connection, intimacy, and sexuality. This inspired years of further professional training in therapeutic coaching, relationship work, mindfulness, and sexology.

A Little More Personal

I’m a curious yogi.
A lover of psychology and human complexity.
Someone who believes sexuality and emotional wellbeing belong in the same conversation.

I’m fascinated by the space where science meets embodiment — where attachment meets pleasure, and where strategy meets softness.

Having lived abroad for over two decades and now working in Finland, I bring both an international lens and sensitivity to cultural dynamics in relationships.

At heart, I’m interested in one thing:

Helping you create relationships that feel safe, alive and filled with conscious pleasure.