I’ve always been curious about what happens between people.

Particularily on the deeper, intimate level. How do we create the bonds and relationships that we do? Why are we attracted to certain kind of people? Who are we really underneath the ‘sholuld’ and ‘have to’s’ in life?

For 15 years I worked in London in the dating and relationship industry, supporting singles through matchmaking and therapeutic date coaching. I worked with ambitious, intelligent, often highly successful people who, despite everything they had achieved, still struggled with love (and intimacy).

What I saw again and again was this:

Finding a partner isn’t just about practical strategy (although this obviously helps!)
It’s about the nervous system, about self-worth, about our authentic desires and how safe it feels to be seen.

During my years in London I was also invited to contribute to public conversations about relationships, attraction and sexuality. I hosted panel discussions, spoke at events and participated as a guest panelist in relationship and intimacy forums — including appearing on a panel at the OM (Orgasmic Meditation) Society event in London.

These conversations deepened my fascination with the psychology of intimacy and the complexity of modern relationships.

My Work Today

Today, I combine that real-world dating experience with sexology training, therapeutic studies, mindfulness practices and deep relational work.

I work with:

• Singles who want to date consciously — not anxiously
• Individuals healing attachment wounds while feeling attractive
• Couples who want to reconnect emotionally and sexually
• Women rediscovering desire, embodiment and erotic confidence

My approach is both practical and profound.

Yes, we can talk about dating apps, communication tools and relationship skills.

But we also explore:

• How childhood patterns show up in intimacy

• How your nervous system reacts to closeness or conflict

• How desire changes under stress

• How connection can be rebuilt from safety rather than performance

• What does a nourishing relationship look like to You

What It Feels Like to Work With Me

Clients often describe our work as:

Grounded
Curious
Honest
Warm

Sometimes playful.
Sometimes confronting — in the best possible way.

I bring lightness into difficult topics.
I ask questions that open new perspectives.
I create space for you to pause, feel and respond rather than react.

This isn’t about fixing you.

It’s about helping you return to yourself — so your relationships can be built from clarity, choice and emotional safety.

A Little More Personal

I’m a curious yogi.
A lover of psychology and human complexity.
Someone who believes sexuality and emotional wellbeing belong in the same conversation.

I’m fascinated by the space where science meets embodiment — where attachment theory meets pleasure, and where strategy meets softness.

Having lived abroad for over two decades and now working in Finland, I bring both an international lens and a deep sensitivity to cultural dynamics in relationships.

At heart, I’m interested in one thing:

Helping you create relationships that feel safe, alive and true to yourself.